Missmaggiemayhem’s Blog

So Zille did a write up on a very sexy afternoon and I feel obliged to write on the same topic because it was so very sexy.

Our plan was to get some work done. To be fair, our work usually involves sexy clothes (or none at all) so I was looking forward to the labors of the day. The spanking video I hope you all enjoyed required a school girl outfit and it just so happens I come with 13 years of Catholic school girl experience. I will wear a super short tartan skirt from time to time, but this was the first time I’ve worn a true uniform since I graduated. I was surprised at how putting one on again impacted my head space. I felt smaller, even more giggly than normal, and ready to make mischief. At the same time I was suddenly self conscious about the state of my fingernails. I was wearing chipped black nail polish and while I was student, that simply wasn’t allowed. Black was on the prohibited colors list and all manicures had to be kept neat and tidy. This was vital for us to become proper young ladies, of course. I started to hide my hands behind my back the same way I did when I was 15 and in violation of the dress code. It was as if the dean could be hiding behind a corner just waiting to write up a demerit for me.

But who needs the dean when Zille’s Master is in the room? I thoroughly enjoyed another spanking because there can never be too many, really, especially with my awful manicure situation. One of the things that is difficult for me is having to be careful about marks. It isn’t professional to show up to a photoshoot with marks so I can’t cut loose the way I like. People are going to start to think I’m an SM featherweight or that I’m not really a masochist. I was envious when I got to hold Zille while she was caned because I wanted some proper sting too! Zille’s Master is excellent with his work and it was like sitting before a 5 star chef preparing your favorite meal in the world after you haven’t eaten for days and only being allowed a few bites. And yet the envy melted away quickly because it was infinitely sexy to be in the room watching two people madly in love and lust with one another play. I’ve been present for so many scenes but it is rare to see such electrifying energy between partners. That, my friends, is the crucial quality of a hot scene. It doesn’t matter if someone is using the most expensive equipment available or something they found at a five and dime store, I get turned on by watching people completely lost in the heat of the moment. It doesn’t matter what kind of special effects a movie has if the plot sucks.

To be a good third, you have to remember the campground rule. You always want it to be better than when you arrived. You can’t litter the scene with your own emotional trash because you want to preserve the natural beauty of your surroundings. Assumptions and jealousy can clutter things up quite a bit. You should leave only foot prints. You should also consider why you are there. You are more likely to meet disaster if you’re a third in a threesome because you want to get closer to one partner, but not the other. You should contribute to the energy, not attempt to drain it away. It helps a lot if you’re able to read the subtle signs to allow the intimacy between the couple to surface and grow. A couple has a lot to process when they invite someone into the bedroom and they really need the right space to do that. A sense of humor is also key because like it or not, geometry will get the better of you at some point. Porn is edited so you don’t always get to see the bumps and spills that occur. Unless you’re in a threesome with engineers, you will miscalculate the size of the space you’re working with from time to time, but that’s o.k. because chances are you have a lot more to think about than physics.

That said, there is also an amount of respect you deserve. Unless you’re a paid third, you definitely need your own aftercare and cuddles. This may or may not mean spending the night at the house, but if the couple gets their kicks and tosses you to the street to dry immediately after that isn’t entirely fair to you either. To go back to the camping analogy, it’s one thing to love nature and visit it often and another entirely to be eaten by a bear. Know your boundaries going into the situation and express them so that everyone is on the same page. Communication can be easily lost between two people and it can be even fuzzier with three. Find out ahead of time if you’ll be staying the night and if so where in the house you’ll be sleeping.

Lucky for me, my night with Zille and her Master was fantastic. They were excellent and gracious hosts who made me feel super comfortable and sexy. We were able to share a lot of intimacy between us and it was so hot for me to watch them together. When all of my cells and nerves and physical systems were established, the jealousy component was left out of the mix. I’ve always loved being around sexual expression. I’m one of those people who wants to hear all about a primary partner’s night out with another person. Maybe I’m just a total perv, but I want details! I am open about what I’m feeling and what is or is not working for me and I have faith that my partners will do the same for me. I’m able to let go and enjoy a situation because I put that trust in people. It is absolutely exhausting to second guess someone all the time. As a voyeur and an exhibitionist a good threesome is incredibly hot for me. During my play date I was able to hit all of my buttons. I was a top and a bottom. I got to have orgasms and give them. I had male and female attention, I was able to watch and be watched, I had rhythm, I had music, who could ask for anything more?

I’m a bit spoiled when it comes to threesomes. I am lucky enough to have been a part of M/M/F, M/F/M, and F/F/F adventures and this date was easily at the top of my list. In college I was the go-to girl for a threesome because I wasn’t doing it because I drank too much or wanted to steal a partner away from someone. I genuinely love doing them! Whether I get to have the pleasure of four hands on my body or I’m helping someone else attain maximum pleasure it’s a total blast.

I’m fairly certain that we’ll have many more escapades to share, but as far as school girl outfits, spankings, hand strapping, and getting to make a sexy girl cum from my manual ministrations I say yay.