I’m getting more than a little annoyed with the continued hoopla about the G-spot. Yes it exists, no it doesn’t exist, and the worst one- it doesn’t matter if it exists. The G-spot has everyone talking from the hairiest Bear at a bar on Folsom to the art school lesbians on MUNI.
To talk about the G-spot, I have to talk about the clitoris. The clitoris is often described as a pea-sized organ located above the clitoris. Well, that’s the part you see. The clitoris is actually bigger. It’s a lot bigger.
This clitoris as seen by MRI with an illustration to guide you
To give you some orientation, at the top is the Mons Pubis which is where you find a landing strip or some razor burn from shaving in the majority of vulvar images most people see. That giant three pronged shape you see is the clitoris. The little pea-sized organ is just what pops out of the body above the urethra.
In other words, there is a lot more happening with the clit than what we see ordinarily. The “G-spot” is a nexus of tissues located on the underside of the clitoris that can be felt through the vaginal wall. The clitoris does have erectile tissue in it (just like the cock) which is why it gets a little bigger and pops out from under the clitoral hood. If you stimulate the clitoris (G-spot) from inside the vagina you might feel it start to swell. for some women, this type of stimulation can bring on a “vaginal orgasm.” If you’re trying to find this area, it is roughly 1.5-2″ inside the vagina. The best way to find the G-spot is to make a “come hither” motion with your fingers as if beckoning her belly button.
Some women really like this sensation, some have orgasms, and still others might squirt. Others don’t like it at all and would prefer that you avoid it. It isn’t a better or worse orgasm by default, it’s all a matter of preference.
So ladies, don’t worry! Your G-spot wasn’t left next to the coffee pot that you accidentally left on for the weekend. It’s just a term we use to indicate another way to reach a very underestimated organ of the body. That’s why we call it the “G-spot” and not the Graffenberg Organ or gland. It’s a spot, a nexus, a handy dandy little place to go.
