I’ll be sitting on a panel at the UC LGBTQIA Western Regional Conference this weekend at UC Berkeley. It’s a fantastic event that I attended as an undergrad in 2004 and 2005. I had so much fun and I’m excited to come back on the other side as a speaker and panelist. I’m looking forward to it! There are registrations for walk-in’s this Saturday the 5th so if you want to join in there is still time. The list of workshops is awesome. I’ll be chatting about kinky sex (of course) but I’m also going to be hitting up some of the other more anti-assimilationist workshops as well. If you see me out and about, say hi. I like people.























I’m bummed I missed your panel – I heard it was pretty interesting. A friend of mine who went said that one of the questions brought up was about the line between healthy and unhealthy in kink. I was curious, do you have any guidelines you follow to keep kink mentally healthy for yourself?