Entries Tagged as ‘About me’

August 31, 2010

Cis-Puppy Play

Like any other liberal couple cohabiting in the Bay Area, Ned and I responded to the tick-tock of the biological clock for the pitter patter of little feet by going for something we really wanted to do together for awhile. We had talked about it, but it’s a life changing decision. It’s also costly and [...]

August 23, 2010

More writing!

I am very happy to announce that I will be contributing to My Sex Professor about once a week. I’ve already been given a warm welcome, but please stop over and say hello! It would be fantastic to see you all there.

August 18, 2010

Two Sluts Passing in the Night

So right now, at the very second these words are being typed, I’m sitting naked in the Kink Live Model Cast boudoir. I’ve been spending some quality time around here (if you want to play, please keep your eye on the schedule!) during some of the odd-hour shoots. When it’s something late I make use [...]

September 1, 2009

Slut, whore, cunt, bitch- reclaimed?

Oakland Graffiti taken from my iPhone For some reason, the way we collect sounds and create languages (and some sociologists might argue that language and words help create culture) are somehow also able to conjure up limitless power over people. It’s easy to see how a belief in spells is something acceptable to rational people. Offensive [...]

August 25, 2009

My time as a Mzungu II: The Hospital

BAGAMOYO HOSPITAL (Fetishes discussed below) In America and most of the West, biohazard sharps containers are made out of plastic that is almost impossible to break into. Here, they are cardboard and subject to mildew, water, and the easy ability to break down. In other words, they aren’t quite as safe. If you’re looking for [...]

April 22, 2009

On my start in porn

“If you can’t be a good example, be a dire warning” Taken from my senior yearbook.  Name obviously altered because, duh. Once upon a time, I was just a high school student looking eagerly for a future that didn’t involve curfews, pointless redundant homework, or dress codes. I certainly didn’t look or act like a [...]

April 18, 2009

Every ‘ho has her day

So I’ve been a little more absent from my blog than I would like. But I can explain!  I was really super busy with all kinds of great projects you see. Aside from my writing over at Carnal Nation, my modeling over at Kink.com, and my usual futzing about at work (little do my 200+ [...]

March 28, 2009

Threesomes

So Zille did a write up on a very sexy afternoon and I feel obliged to write on the same topic because it was so very sexy. Our plan was to get some work done. To be fair, our work usually involves sexy clothes (or none at all) so I was looking forward to the labors [...]

March 10, 2009

Bold as my marks

My favorite way to end to a long and intense scene is to recline in bed with my lover in mutual admiration. I play for those times when we have both used all of our physical resources and we can share the intimacy that comes with that. It is in those moments when I appreciate [...]

March 9, 2009

My Bedside

Hanging out at Bondage-A-Go-Go before all of my clothes have come off. Photo by the Baggaratzi. The BDSM Sexpert has posted a list of things a kinkster should keep by their bedside and that got me thinking about what I keep in arm’s reach. I can’t keep all of my toys right at my bedside, but [...]