Category Archives: About me
Why I Hated My School Girl Skirt Then And Why I’ll Fuck In It Now
The town where I grew up was indeed a strange anomaly for Los Angeles County and with all of its quirks and unending anachronisms give it a Stephen King that was palpable to me even as a kid. The town … Continue reading
Musings On The Pasadena Tournament Of Roses
I grew up at the foothills of the San Gabriel Mountains in a small and terribly archaic anomaly in Los Angeles County: a city only 3 square miles in size with no electric stop lights within the boundaries of the … Continue reading
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Strange Pumpkins
The Beatles sang of strawberry fields forever but I dream of pumpkin fields forever. I haven’t actually gone out to a proper pumpkin patch in years but the Sunday before Halloween I made an executive decision for the small Mayhem … Continue reading
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Queer Teachers
I spent K-12 in parochial schools and suffice to say it wasn’t exactly the right place for a budding “queerdo” like me. Columbine popped off when I was in junior high making it a very bad time to be the … Continue reading
The PSIgasm
I’ve been a long time student of sexuality. Starting back in 2003 I started taking a lot of formal training around sexuality, gender, STI & HIV prevention, harm reduction, and more. Pleasure was not talked about as often as it … Continue reading
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Meet The Mayhems
In March of this year, my partner Ned and I were doing our first formal shoot together as a couple for a project on rough sex and impact play. It was a delight to work on and as we laid … Continue reading
FemDom Tequila
Interesting narrative: It begins as a class fantasy because class porn is a staple of advertising. She has giant windows, she looks out. Is she a voyeur or an exhibitionist? Both? We watch her but she seems to know that. She … Continue reading
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In Support of Young Adult Fiction
Meghan Cox Gurdon, a children’s book reviewer for the Wall Street Journal noticed something startling on the bookshelves reserved for young adult readers. Her essay for a WSJ blog, written in a pearl clutching and startled panic, is titled “Darkness Too … Continue reading
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Community
As an atheist, “mecca” has always been a metaphor for me. I do not believe there is a creator who graces just one place among all else that it has allegedly designed with a supreme intellect. Mecca has never been an … Continue reading
