Category Archives: community
To Daniel: Wherever He May Be
Daniel, I found your video on the internet and I watched it in its entirety and then I watched it again. I couldn’t help but notice your posture and the tone of your voice. Your video was deeply compelling to … Continue reading
Art of Restraint
I recently performed at the Femina Potens “Art of Restraint” in San Francisco. The lineup included: Madison Young, James Mogul, Five Star, Twisted Monk, Maxine Holloway, JP Robichaud, Dylan Ryan, Lilac Wine, and myself. My goal with the piece was … Continue reading
Filed under art, BDSM theory, community, events
Art and Activism
Yesterday I was pleased to be a part of Shibari Relief and consider this a formal apology for not blogging about the event here prior to its debut. I can only hope you may have heard about it somewhere else. … Continue reading
I Have Sex: The Coffee Party
Have you heard of The Coffee Party? Neither had I until I stumbled upon their “I Have Sex” video that I have posted above. I really enjoyed the video and its message (you *are* allowed to have sex and you … Continue reading
Lady Porn Day: Must Reads “The Porning of America”
When I first looked at the cover for The Porning Of America: The Rise of Porn Culture, What it Means, and Where Do We Go from Here by Carmine Sarracino and Kevin M. Scott I was a little worried that … Continue reading
In Defense of the Pop Shot: Dedicated to Margaret Brooks
Porn sequences that include penises invariably end with “the money shot.” It doesn’t matter whether the cock in question is in a queer or heterosexual scene, the visual image of ejaculation comes (ha) with the package (ha ha). For a … Continue reading
Virginity
On January 15, 2011 up-and-coming porn star Nicki Blue is going to lose her virginity live and on camera for your pleasure. But what does virginity really mean? Even in our modern world, women are being murdered because of their … Continue reading
Filed under BDSM theory, behind the scenes, community, feminisms, Uncategorized
Why I Talk About Sex
A lot of the people who get distanced from me because of my life work all say something similar to this: I know that people do it, I know that it’s natural, but WHY do you have to talk about … Continue reading
More writing!
I am very happy to announce that I will be contributing to My Sex Professor about once a week. I’ve already been given a warm welcome, but please stop over and say hello! It would be fantastic to see you … Continue reading
Artists I love- Nancy Peach
If you haven’t seen Nancy Peach’s lush erotic art, you’re missing out on something special. I met Nancy in 2008 when I was starting out as a model. In many ways, she is part of my sexual yearbook because we … Continue reading
