Category Archives: feminisms

Feminist Coming Out Day

In high school I discovered my love for performance. I auditioned for all of the school plays and I was accepted into a smaller branch of our theater department dedicated to improvisational comedy. It was a lot of fun but … Continue reading

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FemDom, Gamers, and Rape Culture

Violet Blue posted a tweet with a link to an article about gamers and rape culture that I found particularly interesting to read. The story takes place in and around the popular cultural icon Penny Arcade which originated as a … Continue reading

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Lady Porn Day: Must Reads “The Porning of America”

When I first looked at the cover for The Porning Of America: The Rise of Porn Culture, What it Means, and Where Do We Go from Here by Carmine Sarracino and Kevin M. Scott I was a little worried that … Continue reading

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Save Lyon-Martin

Lyon-Martin Health Services has been an indispensable clinic here in the Bay Area since 1979. Sadly, they are facing closure unless they raise over $250,000. For those of you who have never benefited from the amazing services that Lyon-Martin provided, let me fill … Continue reading

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Virginity: Update

I got into porn because I wanted to change it. Sexual diversity has always amazed me and my journey with it has been exciting. I’ve had the highs of working with some of the most talented people in the world. … Continue reading

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Virginity

On January 15, 2011 up-and-coming porn star Nicki Blue is going to lose her virginity live and on camera for your pleasure. But what does virginity really mean? Even in our modern world, women are being murdered because of their … Continue reading

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Shame on Me!

Shame on me for quietly digging Violet Blue’s new initiative Our Porn, Ourselves Project without saying anything about it! There is an awesome contest going on with awesome prizes. It’s a good thing to check out and if you have … Continue reading

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Getting Literary

In November of 1740 Samuel Richardson published his lengthy novel Pamela to immediate popularity and success. It’s unlikely you’ve heard of it unless you’ve done any study of British novels published in the 18th century, but I think it’s a … Continue reading

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Is Alexa DiCarlo a fake?

Photo from HERE. Merkins rule. If you’re in the sex worker community, you have no doubt seen the battle cries of many articulate and intelligent “ho’s” of many colors all attempting to drag Alexa DiCarlo out into the public internet … Continue reading

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International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers

Today is the International Day to End Violence Against Sex workers where we stand together in solidarity and we fight against violence. This is violence in actions, violence in words, violence in legislation, violence in isolation. To be a self-identified … Continue reading

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