Category Archives: sexuality
Sleep Sex
I’m not a morning person. That’s why I told my partner Ned to either come on me before heading off to work in the morning or to physically initiate sex. Ned prefers that I put in a morning sex OK … Continue reading
Why I Hated My School Girl Skirt Then And Why I’ll Fuck In It Now
The town where I grew up was indeed a strange anomaly for Los Angeles County and with all of its quirks and unending anachronisms give it a Stephen King that was palpable to me even as a kid. The town … Continue reading
Shocking Teen Orgies Ignite Widespread Mania!
I hate when there’s a sex panic about teenagers. Here’s one: ZOMG! THERE ARE SOME TEENS WHO HAVE HAD MULTI-PERSON SEX! This study was shocked, shocked! to discover that 7.3% of girls aged 14-20 have had MPS- multi person sex. … Continue reading
Filed under activism, sciences, sexuality, slut shaming
Bike Messengers And Vice
”Preston De Costa, fifteen year old messenger #3 for Bellevue Messenger Service. I ran across him and took photos while he was carrying notes back and forth between a prostitute in jail and a pimp in the Red Light district. … Continue reading
How Not To Be A Douche In The Dungeon
I wrote this almost a year ago and posted it on Fetlife. Given that Fetlife is a closed system, I am reposting it here with in a slightly updated form. Feel free to syndicate by crediting with a link back … Continue reading
Filed under BDSM theory, community, kink, sexuality
Porn And Accessibility: Call For Transcribers
When Ned and I started Meet The Mayhems, we wanted to make a porn website that reflected our sexuality on our terms and was welcoming and accessible to our desired audience. We believe that accessibility is vital but with a … Continue reading
Filed under publicity, self promotion, sexuality
Born In Flames: A Film By Lizzie Borden
There’s so much I love about Born In Flames , a film written, directed, and edited by Lizzie Borden. It’s a landmark film about some of the different stripes of feminism and how they might work together to overthrow a … Continue reading
Filed under activism, art, censorship, community, feminisms, Netflix Recs, opinion, politics, queer, sexuality
Artists I Love: Unica Zürn
Her work is strange and twisted. She played out a drama of the chemical sound board in her brain and she was an artist of many mediums including sexuality. Unica Zürn is largely unknown and inaccessible to many. She struggled … Continue reading
Filed under art, BDSM theory, madness, sexuality
Activist Sex
Is there a sex panic about the Occupy Movement protesters? Of course there is! Slut has been a word used to discredit women for years and a sex panic is about the idea that sluts are dangerous when they gather … Continue reading
Queer Teachers
I spent K-12 in parochial schools and suffice to say it wasn’t exactly the right place for a budding “queerdo” like me. Columbine popped off when I was in junior high making it a very bad time to be the … Continue reading
