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Free Cookies

Earlier this summer I was walking through Oakland on my way to catch the subway into San Francisco when I came across a young man on an inflatable couch asking me if I wanted a free cookie. His name is … Continue reading

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Beyond The Valley Of The Fucks

Long before I did porn, I watched it. Sometimes it was out of pure curiosity. My jaw dropped at images of stretched orifices. I watched in wonder at the full potential of the human body. There are those among us … Continue reading

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Dear Sex Worker Hater

Hello Sex Worker Hater, So, we meet again. You’re a shape shifter and I feel like I see you everywhere I go. I’ve spotted you on police forms for recovered bodies which had two categories: human and non-human. Guess which category specifically … Continue reading

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Musings on Twitter

“The internet has changed everything!” -Everyone about everything. As humans, our emotional responses to the world around us develop long before we have any mastery of language. It’s no surprise that when humans experience the extremes of emotion there is … Continue reading

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Movement Intersectionality: Homotopia Pansy Project

“Protecting the rights of minority groups, wherever they may be, is a shared responsibility for all. Prejudice and discrimination are destructive to societies and individuals – tolerance may be more challenging, but it is ultimately more rewarding.” “LGBT visibility and … Continue reading

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Image Appropriation: Netflix Underground BDSM Pride Flag

Introducing the Netflix Pride Flag. With more than sixteen million subscribers welcoming all kinds of abuse and paying for it, Netflix’s customer base has become the largest organized fetish group in North America. A group this large, dedicated, and submissive deserves … Continue reading

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An Ode to the Slap

I don’t know what it is about the slap that turns me on so much. Maybe it’s the pretension that goes on behind it. There is always a judgment being cast with a slap. It’s insulting, it stings, but it … Continue reading

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I am Pro-Choice

I read a new story that made my stomach turn. A man by the name of Kermit Gosnell  operated a clinic called the Women’s Medical Society in an impoverished region of Philadelphia. It was at his clinic that the horrors … Continue reading

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Virginity

On January 15, 2011 up-and-coming porn star Nicki Blue is going to lose her virginity live and on camera for your pleasure. But what does virginity really mean? Even in our modern world, women are being murdered because of their … Continue reading

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Dungeon Music

Anyone who has been out to a night at the dungeon or an S&M themed night club will know that dark wave/elektronika/trance/goth music is fairly popular amongst the tribe. There really is a limit to how much “Dead Can Dance” … Continue reading

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